To successfully seduce a man that you really like is a flattering accomplishment. But if you don’t know the right techniques, you could be sending the wrong message and might end up being misinterpreted. Learning to look attractive to get his attention requires a smart process and a lot of patience.
Don’t worry! Just be confident and follow these six tips to successfully seduce a man;
Don’t Show The Show
You need to leave something to his imagination and make the guy curious about you. There’s a great quote about sex appeal being 50% what you have and 50% what he thinks you have. In other words, don’t put your card in the table and keep a little bit of mystery going. Remember, whatever you do, don’t show the show.
Be Confident, Not Cocky
There’s a big difference between the two. Confidence is more attractive and appealing. You can really use this trait in many ways. It’s about being comfortable in your own shoes, not necessarily trying to impress a man but just being a genuine person and being comfortable with yourself. Being cocky on the other hand is a false sense of confidence and it’s not very attractive. It shows you the person you are trying to overcompensate and it’s definitely not interesting to any man you will meet. So walk that fine line between confidence and cocky and it will go a long way.
It’s important that you’re no one else except your true self. If you’re faking your real personality, you are trying to build a relationship on a very fraudulent shaky foundation. If you know that a guy only likes a certain type of person and you’re not that person, then it’s probably not meant to be. There are billions of people in this planet and you can certainly find someone out there that will appreciate you for who you are.
Show Your Best Smile
A beautiful smile has a lot of meanings like being a positive thinker, sexually more attractive and comfortable in your own skin. A simple talk with an attractive smile often adds a charm to the words you say. So go on and show that pretty smile, flirt with your eyes, get in really close and touch him.
There is nothing more unattractive and so on than being a desperate person. Slow down, take your time, take two steps forward and take one step back. You don’t need to do all at once and that’s okay. If you are sending the wrong message to someone, then it’s not going to happen. So don’t rush things, take it slowly, move forward, pull back and let him follow. Whatever you do, be patient.
Let him think that he is seducing you. Make him think that you’re under his magic spell. Not that he’s under yours, but let him think that he has the game. He doesn’t need to know that it’s really you and he doesn’t need to know that you’ve learned this tip from reading an article. Just don’t let him know that you’re smarter than him. Remember, you’re the one who is pulling the strings here, let him think that it’s him.
Now you know the secrets for seducing a guy, go out, make it happen and let us know how it goes.